I regret that, too, and I share the diagnosis of the 'throwaway-society' (look above)... And I wouldn't so easily install a new mainboard/cpu if the old one still worked, btw. That was meant as a bridge for those with 'upgraditis'.
But all these complaints, what do they help, there's probably no way back to the non-modularity, is it? So we have to do the best with the existing possibilities. (And was it ever possible to repair a memory larger than, say, a few bits?)
The way I offered seems to me me the best compromise with the existing reality. High quality parts in a high quality case - which all can be exchanged, as single ones, without throwing away the rest of it, what you usually have to do with today's devices. That's as durabable and as repairable as it can be.
On the other side, you have the existing desktops, usually made with the cheapest possible parts, and lack of room in their cheap cases - not repair-friendly at all. And then you have these glued-together all-in-ones, which you can't even open (look at ifixit).
Of course, the mobiles are a huge problem. Btw., there was a dutch company 'Fairphone', (don't know if it still exists), that reintroduced at least some modularity in them. And when I see the people handling these devices, without the slightest idea of how to protect their data, well, we call'em here 'portable gestapo', because every step of yours is getting tracked. And did you know that at least half of the population of the eastern lowland gorillas have been shot in the last 25 years, because of the coltan in the mobiles which is found in the gorilla area... All these reasons made me avoid the mobiles, but, of course, many people probably can't, and there's a lot of social pressure, if your son's the only one in the classroom without one...
The point for me, privatly, is, to build and repair as much as possible myself, opamps on sockets, so that they can be replaced, through-hole work, in which you generally can replace parts quite well, that's durable and repair-friendly. And it's a lot of fun.
And, of course, we have to critique the throw-away society, and look for ways-out, wherever they are! I'm the last one, who doesn't do that.