I've never seen a dead laser in a CD player.
I've seen plenty. The trouble is, "dead laser" to many technicians meant the entire laser sled mechanism or in some cases the entire laser/loading mech as a single unit, not just a low output laser diode. Huge numbers of perfectly good entire mechanism were thrown out in the early days due to perhaps a faulty spindle motor, a touchy limit switch, or a cracked nylon gear.
When I started with an upmarket HiFi store in sales, they had a huge box full of replacement entire CD mechanisms (Yamaha) complete with everything. Warranty replacement was drop in, drop out mechs. We had to keep them for a while in case Yamaha wanted to "count" them but eventually they just said to chuck them out. Obviously, I scored a decent number of them...
The laser diodes themselves have proved to be very reliable, however, many fail due to decreasing output as they age. Mainly occurred in the middle years of CD where cost-cutting pressures ruled supreme and the LDs were run too hard. It's rare to come across laser diodes with low output these days- the dead ones are long in landfill and the others just keep going. My LPM (Leader LPM-8000- internet pic below) allows testing and calibration, something simply not done with accuracy then or now.
It always worked for me to remove the dust on it and have it working 5 more years.
Most of the dust and dirt accumulates inside the laser block itself, caused by the focus coils constantly moving up and down- they suck dust and dirt in, and often onto the beam splitting prism. Only the very first generation machines can be pulled down successfully to fix that little problem. Diffraction/grating adjustment is no fun.
In terms of mechanisms, the Sony CDM-4F10A is the best IMO. People may call the mechanism a BU-xxx, but that is only the
Base
Unit. Just the metal part. The laser (KSS-xxx), the spindle motor and linear motor can be different across about 5-6 versions of essentially the same BU.
That said, at the other end of the spectrum, you have the Sanyo SFP-101N which costs less than $5 retail (Chinese copies) and they are pretty much industry standard in plastic boom-boxes and even some high end CD players....
Whenever I see a CD boom box thrown on the side of the road or at a junk shop, I'll open the lid and peer inside. 9/10 times you'll find one of these. The giveaway is that top gear frame moulding shape- very unique and easily seen.
Here's NAD's current model C 546 BEE CD player. It uses exactly the same, cheap $5 mechanism: