It sounds like you have a real opportunity to advance the science in our audio hobby. Many audiophiles talk about it but I have not seen well done measurements. If motivated, you could get metrics on the correlation between your listening enjoyment, your wife's displeasure when on the floor above and the bass volume and quality. Think about it, a scientific measure of when your enjoyment peaks but then falls off sharply due to your wife's displeasure peaking. And how does that correlate to quantity and quality of bass?Subjectively for my situation, boomines is way less. Still my wife is stepping downstairs into my listening room (living room) being upset about too much bass, she feels the air pressure has been increased to unpleasend levels upstairs. This is some oberservation of my wife's behavior which came new with the ELX.
The more I listen to them, the more I am blown away how enjoyable the are.
I am imagining the chart now.