Just bought a set of edifier mr4 to upgrade my "worthless Logitech junk", and don't know how I feel about them and where to go from here.

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i tried -3db q1 for 5k&15k, now its sounds too dark.. can i see your eq settings so i can use them as a baseline? i think my unit is the v2 with 3k peak

I'm no expert at this, but I believe the actual eq of the speakers is different between rooms and even two different speakers of the same model.
You should try eq them yourself to your own liking