sometimes i wonder if people talk down on things bc they simply cannot afford them or the hardware surrounding. again a valid observation.
There is an emperor’s new clothes kind of problem. There is bragging which the wealthy do not do and then “wealth signaling” which occurs from the simple fact that you own premium gear. Nothing wrong with buying audio jewelry like buying nicer a dining table or tableware.
You can get generic XLRs or Neutrik XLRs. While people aren’t plugging XLRs in and out in a domestic environment and the sound quality isn’t going to be meaningfully different, even at ASR people will often pay for the Neutrik gear. The cost of Neutrik cables is relatively low.
Some of the most expensive electronics are things like the Trinnov Altitude and Meyer Sound Bluehorn. You will see disparaging comments by those who wouldn’t even be in the market for either. That said you can measure and null the differences and prove that there is a difference. The value of that difference is just what is up for debate.
For cables, you do run into HDMI cables that go bad, and Cat8 cables do transmit faster than Cat5 cables. However when it comes to audio, the minimum threshold for performance is a lot lower.
Premium cables will lay down more elegantly without visual kinks and coils, but the audible impact is zero.*
The emotional impact is not zero, though. Imagine listening to a system and then listening to a system after spraying pepper spray into your eyes, for a proper blind test. You have not affected the electronics or your ears, but your experience is lousy because of your emotional state.
If you can afford the beautiful cables, you will have a different emotional state when you sit and listen. Maybe the reason you can afford those cables is hard work, luck at the stock market, or sacrifices made elsewhere. It is a subconscious reminder of your success and that is going to put you in a better mood. From that standpoint, go for the nice cables!
But it’s jewelry and the equivalent of a NFT and not actually an improvement to the sound EVEN IF it is an improved to the sound experience due to the associated sighted bias, in a positive manner.