Hey! That's really interesting. I matched my headphones' frequency response to the Diffuse Field target available at the Auto EQ Github repository and tested it against the Harman target, using Waves NX plugins. I actually think DF is better at reproducing the sense of space, it sounds more open while the Harman target makes it sound muffled, closed. But then I searched a bit more and found Oratory1990's answear about a question asking if Diffuse Field is accurate:
"The diffuse-field curve certainly isn't.
It's a reference, but it's not a target.
As in: knowing the diffuse-field transfer function of a particular measurement setup is generally useful, but this does not mean that headphones should be tuned to the diffuse-field curve (e.g. should produce a linear frequency response when measured with a diffuse-field compensated measurement setup).
Tuning a headphone to the diffuse-field curve is only necessary for very specific applications, e.g. when listening to recordings made with a diffuse-field equalized binaural microphone such as the Neumann KU81 or the Neumann KU100."
Even though I preferred Diffuse Field over the Harman target, it got me wondering about this, because Waves decided to use the Harman target as a standard for the built-in headphone corrections.
For binaural/room simulation stuff, is it better to use the Harman target or DF? Oh! Also, is that Diffuse field HRTF you talked about different from the normal one? (This one
https://raw.githubusercontent.com/jaakkopasanen/AutoEq/master/compensation/diffuse_field.png)
Maybe it would make sense to use the Free Field compensation to use with such a plugin, because in Free Field, the sound is coming directly to the microphone without any reflection interference and the plugin is simulating the reflections of the room?
I'm all ears! Really curious to learn