There is tonal balance (arguably the most important aspect) and there are other aspects as well as ringing, cone break up, sharp nulls due to driver angling and driver-ear distance and diameter, pad bounce etc.
These all have an effect on the FR as well but cannot all be compensated for (certainly not easily) .
I bet you could all get them to measure exactly the same on 1 particular rig in one particular position with a particular seal and obtain a super-flat response with different headphones. Most likely most of them will sound tonally similar but can't be the same for more than one reason.
I take headphones for what they are (they have a 'character' one may like, tolerate or hate) and apply a general 'correction' if possible which works for me. Sharp dips I don't correct and sometimes the dip around 3kHz also does not need much or any correction (because of Pinna effects and driver angles)
Some I still don't like though they tonally improve, some improve a bit, others a lot. The ones I like I tend to use the most. This may not be what someone else prefers though.
Try to emulate the LCD-2 bass with something like the K501 or other bass shy headphone and then tell me they sound the same in the lows.
It's absolute bollocks to believe this is even possible. I tried, measured and can say with full confidence it can't.
You can EQ the HD650 and HD600 to sound the same though, but not the LCD-2 and LCD-4. The more refined treble can't be corrected/made the same with EQ it seems to be a membrane thing, though tonally you could get them very close (they differ slightly in tonality as well).
Close enough for quite a few people to say they sound exactly the same.