it is physically impossible to create the sonic illusion that the listener's room has anywhere near the size, scale, or acoustical properties of the performance venue.
Not to dispute anything else that you wrote, but a gentle pushback on this that I might give:
I think there is a fair amount of leeway in the fact we are talking about an “illusion.”
Because to a certain degree, an illusion can also be about what the individual brings to the illusion. I remember many times seeing movies with my wife’s friend who would leave any drama or romcom talking breathlessly, as if all the characters were real and everything we just saw a really happened. She was sucked into the illusion far more than I was.
Likewise, I have a friend for whom horror movies just don’t land at all, and I can watch a movie and be completely sucked in to the illusion of the events, while nothing at all feels real or believable to him.
I think to a certain degree there’s a similar aspect of what the listener brings as a mindset and level of engagement to the stereo illusion. Some people aren’t even trying for a sense of realism in their system and so they don’t go looking for it. Others like me really enjoy a sense of realism, and I sink into it when it occurs.
One of my goals for my two channel set up is that an acts as a sort of transportation, device or “ Star Trek Holo-Dock” where to the extent possible, my room will seem to shape shift to the nature and acoustic character of the recording. So I’ve played with set up and dialled in reflections in a way that seems to do that very well for my purposes.
I can think of a recordings such as one where the entire back wall of my room seems to acoustically disappear and a set of drum drums slowly appears out of great distance as through a large hall. Likewise, I can think of certain symphonic recordings where the Tympani seem to be coming from a long distance in the far corner of a large hall beyond my loudspeakers.
And there’s instances that I’ve mentioned before where I’m listening to a well recorded Orchestra, and the sense that the orchestral space melds with my room seems essentially seamless. The problem there is that my speakers clearly can’t produce the actual scale of being close to a Symphony Orchestra.
But this is where the user comes in terms of the illusion. If I close my eyes, I can imagine myself in seats from the right distance from the symphony - it might be up on the balcony further away - at which point the size of the orchestral image I’m hearing seems to sound about right from that imagined “ distance.”
And at that point, I’ve had the sense of hearing right into a large hall to the orchestra at that distance. I have left the sensation that I’m in a relatively small room hearing sound that’s actually only about 7 feet from me from the speakers.
So this is what I mean about once we start talking about illusions, there’s a bit of mushiness there to contend with.
(which doesn’t rule out in principle actually studying illusions that actually fool people, and do not necessarily require the user to engage imagination).