It all depends ... as always.
I lived some years in Wuppertal, where it is common that everyone in the neighbourhood, supermarket and elsewhere begins a conversation by telling it's life story to begin with. That behaviour is all around in the Rheinland. Sitting in a Pub or Restaurant with some spare places at the table you often are asked by people if they can join, even if there are spare tables around.
Was in the beginning a bit strange to me (as I'm Niedersachse), but became soon used to it and appreciate it even today.
Worst experience, the absolute opposite to this, was in Wolfsburg, and that is a completely different story.
So ... it depends.
I lived some years in Wuppertal, where it is common that everyone in the neighbourhood, supermarket and elsewhere begins a conversation by telling it's life story to begin with. That behaviour is all around in the Rheinland. Sitting in a Pub or Restaurant with some spare places at the table you often are asked by people if they can join, even if there are spare tables around.
Was in the beginning a bit strange to me (as I'm Niedersachse), but became soon used to it and appreciate it even today.
Worst experience, the absolute opposite to this, was in Wolfsburg, and that is a completely different story.
So ... it depends.