I sincerely believe that you need to refrain from posting inaccuracies.
High Fidelity is the accurate reproduction of
the full audible spectrum. For most people on this forum that would be between 20 Hz and 15 KHz ... We lose our sensitivity to the treble but retain it in the bass. Fact, not an opinion.
Source:
Effect of Ageing on Hearing Thresholds in the Low Frequency Region*
We must hear the bass ,else it is
almost hi-Fi ...
Now concerning that thing about the "carefully chosen" mains... Are you trying to say that in a small room it is best to chose main speakers that are deficient in the lows? Because if your mains are "full range", they will exacerbate the exact same room modes as any subwoofers... That again is a fact.
So in your opinion, small room = choose bass-limited mains...Perhaps you could go for a midrange only speaker system