I believe you are right. The studies show that reflections arriving later than 20ms shows that the detection threshold (of the reflection being perceived as a separate event) is increased. There is that paper by Haas which I won't link to because it's in German. But this paper by Olive and Toole is in English, free to download, and shows the same thing. As to whether it is "preferred" I am highly sceptical. As far as I am aware the studies say it is detectable, not whether it is preferred. Anybody know of a good study?
Olive S, Toole F "The Detection of Reflections in Listening Rooms", JAES Vol. 37, No. 78. Link to free download
I would suggest there is some frequency dependancy in the significance and effect of reflection times and it may be a mistake to look for a single time to base perception from.
This study may be of interest although I don't think the listening test conditions are clearly stipulated.