Audiophiles are making observations and even though the "elitist" in me wants to correct people, we must respect those observations
No, we certainly must not. Observations in which no attempt has been made to control for confounding variables (e.g. level-matching to control for volume affecting perceived sound qualities, which is a known effect, or blind listening to control for the innumerable cognitive biases sighted listening elicits), which audiophiles rarely do, should not be respected or even considered as valid observations at all. If you want to come to true conclusions, basic scientific methods are required. Otherwise you can be led down nonsensical paths that just give credence to falsehoods.