I have used these in several residential projects both with and without the bass module. In your case you do not need the bass extension module and probably wouldn't want to live with it either as the speaker becomes quite large.
Yep, that is the problem with threads like this and it does show the limitations of simply reading charts and graphs in isolation.
Not all subs look like this:
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I was also looking at the emotiva airmotiv xt3's and the Philharmonic BMR towers and HT towers. The Ascends have super reviews, even being compared to KEF blade 2's! And I just got a pair of ascend luna v2's for my office / mini studio. (see pic). I know I should have gone for genelecs or KH 120's, but the Luna's look so great in dark red wood in my space, and I really like the ribbon tweeters! 
I have a sub under the desk, and the whole set-up rocks! (and before anyone comments on the sonos amp, don't worry, that is only temporary, and it's being replaced by a topping la90 discrete, arriving tomorrow)
I don't think you want the BMRs in that space. HTs would be a better bet. If you like that look of the BMR Tower, they make a curved HT that is pretty gorgeous if you order ahead.
The BMR Tower is tuned for maximum bass, while the HT won't go as low, but will play significantly louder (and go low enough for 98% of music). The HT are designed to be paired with a sub (or several) if you want truly full range (down to 20 Hz or lower), like in a typical HT (Home Theater) setup, while the BMR is designed to be basically full range out of the box - but again, at the cost of SPL (how loud they can play). Given the size and shape of your room, the BMRs would also probably struggle to play really deep bass anyway. That room is gonna eventually benefit from 2 (or more) well-placed subwoofers. Sonus Faber are generally regarded as much prettier in appearance than they are accurate sound reproducers. You are largely paying for the furniture-quality build of the cabinets, as opposed to state of the art engineering. Most here would say to stay away.
Philharmonic Audio HT Tower done in a 'curved' model which can be ordered custom. (usually, contact them).
No wonder you other half doesn't want loudspeakers in this room!
I like this idea, although I haven't listened to any line arrays at home.
Are you in the US? How about a pair of medium silver Revel F328Be for $9300 +shipping? I switched to Genelec because I needed a near-field speaker for my listening space, so I need to let these go. They are mint.
