Wow, I'm impressed with the breadth and depth of the responses! Thank you all (even the guy with the $40,000+ piece of speaker advice ... Yeah, that's not happening. That has exactly zero chance at WAF - and that would be even if they were invisible


). I KNOW this is a big lift, and as i said: that is my dilemma and the compromise I need to make to keep marital harmony. Or else I will just have to live with the sono(s) and / or a few bookshelf speakers scattered around (Hmm, here's an idea: how about 4 KH 150's spaced around the room? or 2 Genelec 8351's? Yes would be above budget, but I don't need an amp, then

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Here are a few more pieces of data that people have asked for: I tested myself with Decibel X and my normal listening volume is 65-70 db - with maybe some peaks at 75. The most I would go is 70-75 with some 80 peaks. So speakers don't have to put out THAT much volume. And I have included a couple of pictures of my
space: the idea would be to put the speakers either on the inside or outside of the two vertical wooden beams that frame the big window on the left side. I could put them up to 2' away from the wall. The red couch against the wall and under the painting (on the right side) would be the listening area. So tweeter to ear distance = 19-20 feet. As you can see, there are a lot of reflective surfaces, hence the need for DPS / EQ. In terms of volume, I don't know if that makes it easier or harder.
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