The toxicity of Be is off-putting. I understand that the risk is very small, but I'm the kind of person who prefers 0 risk of that kind in my home. YMMV
Just don't beat it with a hammer, grind it up and snort it.
*shrugs
Be is also a very strong material and would require something much more than than a gentle tap to make it break apart.
More than anything about specific materials, when you are planning your project and looking at Drivers, you need to pick not exclusively by material but how it will perform in conjunction with your Cabinet design and the other Drivers you will be implementing. Cost does come into play as a measure of performance to a certain extent. $50 Tweeters are definitely shorter in areas than $100 Tweets. Like all other things, there is a point of diminishing returns and you have to decide if a Au-Ti alloy actually performs better than a pure Ti or Ceramic Tweet of comparable value. (Of course, you may well find a better Ceramic Tweet at half the value of something with Au in it.
Is this what you are talking about:
Audax TW025A28 25mm Gold Plated Titanium Dome Tweeter; Neodymium magnet with heat sinks
www.madisoundspeakerstore.com
In the description they say gold-plate.