Folks playing SINAD top trumps should be distinguished from folks looking for actual audio performance relative to the use of the equipment as a play back system .
Should there be more of a focus on ABX rather than SINAD , possibly. Certainly it would be more helpful imo if there were , but as has been mentioned the responsibility lay at the feet of the consumer. As mentioned by Erin , if ones going to start talking about how things sound then ABX is a must . But then thats a contradiction in terms as once past audio thresholds things all sound the same ... .. .
To a degree, if we were to just accept audible thresholds then really most of us should then all go home as audio is a solved problem outside of making the speakers work in your listening space.
All said i see no criticism in what Erin is saying regarding all things SINAD. It has become something it isn't, to some audiophiles imo .