...I think the higher slew rate is what gives an ESL its characteristic spooky-real sound.
This makes sense to me and is similar to the logical assumption that a low mass conventional driver will yield better detail. Do you have any waterfall plots for the electrostatic section of your speakers? I would be curious to see how they compare with a driver such as this one:
https://josephcrowe.com/blogs/news/yamaha-ja6681b-compression-driver.