Well, per my understanding, a linear phase filter always has pre-ringing, no matter how you "implement" it (I do not understand, what you exactly mean with your statement about implementation).
Only if paired with a perfectly aligned complementary linear phase filter, the pre-ringing cancels out (perfect linear phase x-over).
Now place subs in your room, place mains in your room and try to get a perfect x-over at various locations in this room - good luck!
The question is what is more audible in the end: pre-ringing by imperfect linear phase sub/main x-over or increased group delay but no pre-ringing by minimum phase sub/main x-over. I am using the latter.
Regarding high pass filters to limit the main speakers without sub: I would never use a linear phase filter as HPF, not suitable for this use case IMO.