I think you are actually agreeing with me despite your first sentence!
The idea of the frequency response target is backwards. The observation that a neutral speaker gives the sloping response in a dumb (in the British sense of the word) FFT in a typical room derives from simple, understandable physics. But by understanding where the curve comes from, rather than just making the observation, it can be predicted that the neutral speaker would produce a different curve in a different room. Also, a more, or less, directional speaker (which still counts as neutral) would produce a different curve.
So, even if we don't stray into non-neutral speaker territory, it would be a mistake to use any curve whatsoever as a target for adjusting the EQ of a neutral speaker. It shouldn't be adjusted at all, whatever the in-room measurements.
In this particular case it is observed that "I didn't have to make any adjustments to meet the target curve", but this is just an indication that the room was not far off 'typical', and the speaker is neutral and happens to have similar directivity to the one used when measuring the special curve. It is a backwards way of establishing a speaker's neutrality - which would be better established without reference to any in-room curve at all.