I actually had very mixed feelings about the HD6XX's out of the box. After a lot of experimentation, and upgrading my amp, I became happy with them. But I am also conditioned by the much higher resolution from my Etymotic IEM's, which I use as mobile phones. There simply is no comparison on detail and separation, although the Ety's have their own problems and on balance, I like the HD6XX's better, despite the softer resolution and separation. The Aeon Closed X's I think match the Ety's on detail and, for me, exceed the HD6XX's on detail and separation. However, I haven't settled down yet on the Closed X EQ settings, although I'm using the same reference settings you are.
That all said, I still really like the HD6XX's for very smooth mids. And with EQ, I was able to get treble that seems more detailed but not at all harsh, compared to the way it was out of the box. It made subjective resolution better and satisfying, if not equal to the Aeons or Ety's. And I thought the lower mid's were a bit soft or tubby, and that was easy to fix. Finally, I do now really like the bass tonality, despite what sounds like residual roughness or distortion. I fiddled a long time with bass EQ, and as mentioned, upped the amp power: the HD6XX's did scale up, as they say. Like so many have said before, you can find a lot of things about the HD6XX's where there are other phones that can do this or that better; but still, the overall presentation of the EQ'd HD6XX's does feel like home. I started out liking the mids and vocals; now I also like rock on the Senn's just as much.