I would never get any D+M AVRs to 0 dB volume, the closest I would, and had ever tried was about -10, might have crank to 0 for a couple second just to experience reference level but wouldn't want to risk damaging my hearing any further.
If you meant volume at -4, and was getting 75 dB at MLP, then maybe something else is wrong. For you, it should be easy to check, because you know your stuff. Regardless, you know every time you double your distance, ignoring room gain, you lose 6 dB spl, you know your speaker's (use one channel at a time only) sensitivity, so you should know the spl you should be getting at your mlp at volume 0, if you have done your autosetup/audyssey right, your should be getting approximately 85 dB average.
Now if you measure your spl if Dirac Live in use, then you will likely be getting about 75 dB, +/- a few dB, because irrc.,
@Dj7675 told me DL would reserve 10-15 dB.
Again, don't worry about Denon AVR's pre out voltage, they are fine, 3.5 V clean output is not an issue at all.