I have no concerns whatsoever with a 33 kOhms load, or even 15 kOhms. bigguyca said the input impedance of Denon AVR's internal amps was about 33 kOhm (no idea how he knows as I don't think the SM has that info). So if you add an ext amp with input imp 10 KOhms, the equivalent imp of 10K in parallel with 33 K would be below 8K but should still be high enough for that vol control chip to remain on spec. Not saying it would be low enough to absolutely not affect distortions in any significant way, just can't be 100% sure without seeing actual measurements.
On the other hand as I mentioned before, Marantz has the HDAM unity gain buffer amp, but the 7705's SINAD still dropped to only about 75 dB at 4 V XLR, equiv to 2 V RCA. bigguyca seemed to attribute that to noises, but I don't remember Amir cited that as the reason. If he's right, then the often talks about how dedicated processors are better than AVRs in terms of minimizing noises/interference etc. (i.e. the toroidal tx, copper shieldings blablabla would not make much sense any more..
Below are examples of typical input impedance specs of a few popular power amps:
ATI class AB amps...................................28 kOhms (Expect Monolith's the same)
ATI N core amps......................................47 kOhms
Outlaw monoblocks.................................16 kOhms RCA
Outlaw 5000/7000................................ 40 kOhms
Outlaw 7900.............................................>10 kOhms
Marantz M8077.......................................22 kOhms RCA, 30 kOhm XLR
Parasound A21.........................................33 kOhms RCA, 66 kOhm XLR
Anthem MCA............................................10 kOhms RCA, 15 kOhm XLR
Emotiva A-300.......................................... 27 kOhms RCA
Emotiva XPA Gen 5..................................23.5 kOhms RCA, 33 kOhm XLR
Bryston 4B3.................................................30 kOhms
NAD M22.....................................................17 kOhms + 200 pF RCA
So it would seem that most power amp probably have input impedance >= 10 kOhms, and that's why I picked that value, just to be conservative.
Thanks for expanding on this topic. Usually impedance discussions put people to sleep. You should know that the 33k ohm value given in the original post was only a ballpark number for illustration. The 33K ohm impedance is the value of the resistor at the input to the power amplifier differential pair. There are additional resistors in parallel with this resistor. Since we're going to pursue this question further a much more accurate number is required.
Including all of the various parallel resistances seen by the volume control output the effect impedance is 18.3k ohms for products like the X4500H. For higher end products such as the X6500H, X8500H 19.9k ohms appears a better number. More refinements to these values are certainly possible and measurements would be really nice. The impedances would clearly vary with frequency since there are numerous parallel capacitors, but let's stop here. Keep in mind that the resistors are 5% tolerance.
Using 18.3k ohms in parallel with the input impendence of your sample of amplifiers results in the following effective impedance seen by the output of the volume control for each amplifier.
Notes: I only checked one of the values for input impedance specifications that you listed, for the Bryston 4B3, since I'm off-hand familiar with Brystons. The Bryston website lists the RCA input impedance as 7.5k ohms. Ignored Bryston in the list. As I'm sure you are aware the typical design of the differential amplifier used in the input stage of many electronics has quite a quite low impedance to ground on one of the legs. This may be what we are seeing with the Bryston unit if the low impedance leg is used for the RCA input.
https://bryston.com/amplifiers/4b3/
This rather large error raises questions about the accuracy of your other data, but I'm too lazy to verify every number nor should that be required.
Also, Stereophile measured the unbalanced (RCA) input impedance of the XPA2 Gen3, as 14.5k ohms at low and middle frequencies and 9.5k ohms at higher frequencies. Using specifications when measurements from a respected source are available seems bad form, so the 14.5k ohm value is used below. See 2nd paragraph in this link.
https://www.stereophile.com/content/emotiva-xpa-gen3-two-channel-power-amplifier-measurements
Effective RCA load input impedances seen by Denon volume control:
ATI class AB amps................................... 11.1k ohms
ATI N core amps...................................... 13.2k ohms
Outlaw monoblocks............................... 8.6k ohms
Outlaw 5000/7000................................ 12.6k ohms
Outlaw 7900............................................. >6.5k ohms
Marantz M8077....................................... 10.0k ohms
Parasound A21......................................... 11.8k ohms
Anthem MCA............................................ 6.5k ohms
Emotiva A-300.......................................... 10.9k ohms
Emotiva XPA Gen 5................................. 8.1k ohms
Bryston 4B3................................................ Conflicting specs - waste of time - ignored
NAD M22..................................................... 8.8k ohms
The loads seen by the volume control output are mainly at or under 10k ohms, and are are likely to create various levels of excess distortion compared to driving much higher impedance loads. 47k ohms was used as a load when developing the specifications for the volume control used by Denon.
The low input impedances above reinforce the need for Denon to implement the capability to disconnect the output of the volume control, on a channel by channel basis, from the inputs of the internal power amplifiers.
For reference:
Datasheet for Denon volume control, the NJR NJU72343. Note the maximum output vs. load impedance on page 14 . Any drop off in voltage output indicates that the volume control is struggling to produce enough current to support the required voltage output and is distorting the output signal. Even at the relatively high impedance of 10k ohms the output has dropped, with major drops thereafter. It is significant to note that NJR supplies no minimum load impedance. Key data left off a datasheet is worrisome.
https://www.njr.com/electronic_device/PDF/NJU72343_E.pdf
Here is the datasheet for a Rohm 8-channel volume control from a family of controls used in Yamaha products. Note the maximum output vs. load graph on page 32. Rohm indicates a minimum load requirement of 10k ohms and the output is quite flat to that point, especially vs. the NJR part. Again, the Rohm control appears more robust than the NJR unit and specifies a 10k ohm minimum impedance. This implies that the rating for the NJR part should be something over 10k ohms, perhaps or toward at least 15k ohms.
http://static6.arrow.com/aropdfconversion/271b3372c8a7cd0233116134a4ba4fd4f6b1cb26/bd34703ks2-e.pdf