Then why is it that if I EQ all of them to the META curve, using the same tips and the same insertion depth, they still retain different sonic characteristics and their technical performance remains different?
According to your logic, they should sound identical and have the same spatial presentation and technical capabilities, but they clearly don’t.
Measurement rigs are still not 100 % reliable in the treble frequencies and show differing results from seating to seating because positioning and seal is slightly different every time. Then there's curve smoothing and also unit variation to contend with. Your specific IEM might not be identical to the IEM of the same model someone else measured, however well. Just look at the L&R variations on Squiglink. Even well-matched pairs differ slightly from side to side.
And that's not even introducing the HRTF stemming from your unique anatomy. You hear differently from everyone else in the world, including the B&K 5128 that was likely used to measure your set of IEMs.
Plus, AutoEQ is great but not infallible. The typical 10 bands might not be enough to match the curve 100 %.
Even if you managed to match one IEM to another 100 %, the way you are presenting on here tells me you probably wouldn't be able to leave your biases at the door. You're hearing with your eyes, based on ad copy and conventional audiophile wisdom (read: subjectivist nonsense).
As Jiraya369 said: In the end, it's the frequency response that hits your eardrums. How the specific audio product goes about producing that response says nothing about its quality.
FR measurements are not infallible but they are the best tools we have to quickly and objectively assess the performance and sound profile of a piece of audio hardware. They are also great starting points for EQ when paired with a preference curve you know appeals to you. In the end, everything needs to be hand-tweaked to the way you yourself hear sound. No tool can do that for you, you gotta learn to do it yourself.
In the end, not being able to match one IEM to another
for your own ears is a skill issue. But you seem to have a more expensive list of gear than me, which I guess equates to more miles traveled on the AUDIO JOURNEY™ so what do I know?