Some years age there was a software program called Audiodiffmaker; by Liberty Instruments ( the maker of Praxis) if I recall correctly.
It allowed you connect a DUT eg. Resistor or capacitor or inductor inline and then played and RECORDED, to a WAV file, a frequency sweep.
Then you switch out the DUT with another, and repeat the process.
Then the program subtracts file 2 from file 1, and then you stick you headphones on, and see if you can hear the subtracted difference!
We’re there difference? Yes.
How big was the difference? Infinitesimally small- you’d have to strain to see if you could the difference between an 85dB signal frequency sweep, or a 85.07dB frequency sweep.
Or you strain your ears to to test if you can hear 0.07dB frequency sweep, compared to digital silence (is it even playing?)
What’s the conclusion.
Like the OP’s conclusion.
So is a $30cap worth it over a $3 cap?
Well maybe, but not for audible reasons-
You can safely choose your caps or resistors due to other reasons (longevity or durability, favourite colour, favourite look, favourite country of origin, low capacitor travel miles)
Anyway, It was the end-game for me and stop my obsession of passive parts upgraditis...