Okay I've made my decision. I've ordered Adam T5V + T10s subwoofer, and I will also order the Edifier MR5. They had an excellent review here and are 3 way speakers with the same 5" size. So my plan is to do the following:
I'm going to inspect how well I can integrate the sub into my room and how much of that extra lowend I actually need to verify whether the sub makes sense for me as of now or not. Then I'm going to try the T5V alone and see if I can get used to the thinnier sound without the sub's lowend and see if they'd be a good standalone purchase, and I'll compare them to the MR5.
Then I compare those to my 2.1 Logitech consumer system. The last tests I did with T7V versus my Logitech system showed: While of course the stereo imaging was much better and sound more enjoyable, I could hear and spot everything on my Logitechs that I could spot in the T7V as well. T7V was a bit snappier with snare/drum transients though (only one specific song, nowhere else), IIRC. But not drastically so that I felt like I'm missing out on Logitech. I actually believe that was rather due to the speakers just being bigger so these transients felt larger and closer, not about being more transparent, but difficult to tell from memory.
And eventually I will compose a little short sequence of music with many different tracks for complexity and then do multiple mixes always from scratch with each of these combinations (T5V + Sub, T5V alone, MR5 alone, Logitech 2.1 with sub, Sennheiser HD650, Superlux681).
Then I can see how the different mixes turn out and how they translate to other devices. I think that's the best way to figure out what works in my situation specifically and what I do need or do not need. Like I said, my mixes do translate pretty well with my Logitech 2.1 + Superlux HD681 already, but the direct comparison might or might not reveal things, or will show me if I get other benefits like being faster (less forth an back or so).
Edit: Also I think it would be very interesting to see the same low-end-heavy sequence mixed once on headphones and once on T5V + T10s, to see how easy or difficult it is in comparison to dial in the correct amounts of low end on headphones. I can make a thread here then, quote this post and share the results if you're interested, for the fun of it.
We could even turn this into a blind test.. and you can judge with all your high end system which mixes you like the best
