You are beautifully illustrating my point above that it is not worth buying knockoffs unless you can measure them, then either return them or be content with paying more in time and money than originals would have cost in the first place. In the case of Dekoni pads it's even worse because not only do they cost
more than the genuine pads, they all measure nothing close to the stock sound. If £55 for pads which don't sound like the originals and aren't proven to last longer doesn't seem so outlandish, consider you can buy two pairs of originals for £64 (you'll get free shipping as it's over £50).
Please do not succumb to the sunken cost fallacy: you've already spent £24, which you are kicking yourself over, and now feel you don't want to spend the £32 on genuine pads because you've already come this far. You recognise already you might be 'throwing good money after bad' and don't know what they're even supposed to sound like anymore. The simple answer is to buy the genuine pads, then you'll know and be free of doubt.
Additionally, you say you've got an SMSL M500? From
amir's review I certainly would describe the amp in that unit as 'proper', his only criticism is that 'The only weakness is that its amplifier doesn't blow your ear drums.' I can say with 100% confidence 'moving up the stack' won't make a jot of difference compared with getting new pads.
Again, sunken cost. Looking to buy another amp would be another way to avoid spending the £32 on the pads (and would obviously cost way more).