You might be experiencing a communication problem here.
This actually illustrates the problem perfectly. You’re framing a simple follow‑up question—‘I acknowledged your resource, now what’s
your perspective?’—as ‘speaking and demanding.’ That’s not a communication problem on my end. That’s a community culture problem where asking for clarification is treated as insubordination.
is not really possible to speak and demand when facing advanced members.
I didn’t demand anything. If ‘advanced members’ can’t handle a polite request for elaboration without retreating behind appeals to authority and forum hierarchy, maybe the issue isn’t the person asking for more information.
You really need to do your homework first if want to engage with advanced members and topics.
For one, you should understand what room EQ does and how it compares vs the bench results. A good place to start IMO - and if you need more specific pointers than I guess you will just shout out.
This assumes I haven’t. I’m asking about stereo vs. AVR—a fundamental fork in the road. I’ve read plenty, but part of doing homework is
asking people with experience to contextualize measurements and bench tests for real‑world use. Pointing someone to ASR
is homework. Expecting them to then not ask any questions about it defeats the purpose of a discussion forum.
The sarcasm here (‘shout out’) is exactly the condescension that makes forums feel unwelcoming. I started politely. I was met with passive‑aggressive pushback. Now I’m being told I should have done more homework
before engaging with ‘advanced members.’ That’s not a helpful starting point—it’s moving the goalposts.
And don't "like" my post and then circle back and start questioning my intent. If "like" means you agree with the contents of my post, don't contradict that, it sends a mixed signal and it makes me think you're not really here to help.