I have a severe case of sapiophilia. I can find people physically super attractive, but as soon as they open their mouth and only bullshit comes out, I'm appaled and turned off thoroughly. The other way around, perfectly average looking people suddenly become mighty attractive the moment they impress me with their smarts.Do we know of any hobby that's described as "-philia" that does not sound or people think is perverted?
At my '20's when one has the need to dive into other arts than music we had the Wednesday movies day, mostly poetic cinema.
That's deep into cinephiles. The most we ever gathered was under 100 people, needless to say we payed a good chunk each (for young person's money) for renting the movie theater.
Whenever we invited people to it we got the look and the known "Oh, you're the ones watching an ear of grain for straight 10 minutes, right" .
So...
-philias are strange to people![]()
Is that perverted?