Frak, since you are on WBF forum Frank, this should resonate with you. You know Mike Lavigne. For those who don't know him, he has a super expensive system and cherished as one of the highest high-end audiophiles out there. Like you Frank he is convinced that what he perceives in audio is the reality.
Well, back in 2011 he was so sure that he could tell his MIT Opus cable from others that he accepted a blind test challenge in his own home with his gear. The results are were this:
http://www.avsforum.com/forum/86-ul...41184-observations-controlled-cable-test.html
"So our results with Mike as our listener were clear: for this particular methodology, Mike could not accurately identify a difference in the cables."
Here he was so sure of his ability hear differences in cables but the moment all but the sound of cables were presented to him, he was unable to do so.
Mike posts this about the experience:
http://www.avsforum.com/forum/86-ul...184-observations-controlled-cable-test-2.html
"yes; i have, to some degree, changed my perspective on cable differences....but...my mind is still processing the results and what they mean for me. i hope that i can coherently relate the various thoughts that go thru my mind. as Chris mentioned; the controls were successful at keeping me from knowing which cable was which. for each test i felt confident about my choice (except #6...see below).
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when i made my choice known for #8 i was confident that i was 100% for all 7. then my friend Ted said 'that's it.....test over'. we had discussed prior that any result 7 out of 10 or better or 15 out of 20 or better would mean a positive result and to continue. once we got to only 3 out of 7 it was clear that we were not going to get a positive result.
why did i fail?.....or put another way.....why did this test show no real difference? was i overconfident?
yes; regardless of the eventual answer i was not respectful enough of the challenge.
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in my mind i am not confident that i will ever be able to hear reliable differences between the Monster and the Opus to pass a Blind test. OTOH i am also not sure i won't be able to do it."
After countless years of believing in cable difference through the same type of experiences you talk about, he was shown to be completely wrong.
Sadly he has forgotten all of this now and is back to believing in his faulty methodology. Which is fine but in this forum we don't do that. We learn from such data and advance our knowledge of proper audio evaluation.