Thanks for the tips. I’ve tried both players with different dacs using the same player output and the Audiolab is still too bright to my ears. The Onkyo seems more balanced. I’m going to try an older model Marantz and see if it sounds better but still balanced.
OK - let me give you a cast iron guarantee : If you are using digital out from both players to the same DAC, then there is absolutely NOTHING in the sound waves reaching your ears that is creating the sound differences you are perceiving.
This means the differences are created in your brain - IE perceptive bias. So rather than wasting your time and money chasing different transports to try and get the sound you want, I'd first suggest you settle down and just start listening to the music - rather than
listening for differences (which is why you are hearing them). After a few days or a week, you'll probably find out the characteristics you think you don't like won't be there anymore.
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Trouble is - one of the aspects of being human is having a brain that acts as a prediction machine. All those optical illusions you’ve seen, or the auditory illusions you've heard : They're the result of your brain making stuff up from imperfect senses bringing in imperfect information.
See that 3D world all around you as you look around? That perception exists only in your brain. It is built from the ground up based on two tiny, blurry, and with a blind spot right in the middle images projected onto your retina. I think it is almost miraculous how the brain manages to create that perception for you.
Now without moving your head, picture the stuff that is behind you. You can actually build that into your perception of the world even when not looking at it. It is not coming from any of your senses - it is simply a prediction from your brain based on what you've seen in the past.
Ever been walking down a path in woodland and seen a person up ahead that turns into (e.g.) a tree stump when you get closer - that's your brain predicting.
Ever heard someone say something, and then they deny they've even opened their mouth - brain prediction.
This is happening all the time. Our brain is continuously making pretty good predictions based on imperfect information - we couldn't function if it didn't. Sometimes, though, it gets the predictions wrong. And it is multi-sensory. It can alter sound based on what you see, or change what you see based on what you hear. Or how we feel, or what we've imbibed, or how comfortable we are, or if we are in unfamiliar surroundings.
It is well known that we will hear differences between audio devices even when there is no difference in the sound reaching our ears. We've all experienced it. In fact, we all experience it all the time. Ever sat down to listen to music to find your system doesn't impress you the way it normally does - or on this day it suddenly sounds sublime? The system hasn't changed, you have : your perceptions have.