Maybe we should stop using live performances as a reference for how recorded music should be played, especially when pairing it with 'appeal to nature' arguments.
For many many years, recorded music, aside from a specific niche of classical recording, has been produced in a way akin to painting a canvas - adding brushstrokes, painting over things, etc as artists and producers see fit. This is also true for most revered "hifi" recordings. The same way using a camera to take a picture is a perfect reproduction of looking at the same scene, no matter the gear, pointing a stereo pair at a source is not necessarily the most high fidelity reproduction of what it'd be like to experience a performance in person.
More importantly, amplified live music, despite being a magical activity, is most often a mess in regards to sound reproduction. At its core, modern live music involves transporting a performance to various venues while trying to minimize the problems caused by room acoustics and PA systems. It's not unusual for a technician to have to completely do away with an entire frequency band for a given instrument, simply to make the source work for that venue and PA system. That's the antithesis of high-fidelity reproduction. And mind you, I do not think this makes live music any less magical.