Not saying that 1 sec. of short-circuit will get an output buffer defective, but definitely such overload is not desirable, so from my perspective XLR plug wins over the regular jack plug. Although, a simply resistor could be the only "protection" for some amplifiers, at least until the thermal protection will kick in, so again, XLR is an advantage.
Beyerdynamic DT880 600 Ohms cans with 10 meters headphones cable is just not something I'd like to see in my audio chain, unless they're balanced. I'll reattach Dr. Meier Corda's explanation:
http://www.meier-audio.homepage.t-online.de/.
Despite my above 2 bullet-points, I don't think that under normal conditions single-ended vs. balanced is something that could be actually noticed in a well-done A/B test, but given the fact that on this forum even a slight 0.1dB difference could matter, then I'm inclined to balanced operation for absolutely maximum performance (when needed, of course).
I personally used same cans in both single-ended and balanced, feed from the same DAC and same headamp (equipment was able to output SE and balanced at the same time), but given the few seconds time to unplug the cans and insert the Balanced-to-SE adapter
I was unable to determine if there were sonically differences between the two outputs. However, if would be a huge "improvement", I would definitely noticed that for sure, but it wasn't;
the only thing I've noticed was a lower background noise when using balanced operation (I was able to hear that with sensitive 16-Ohms IEMs and this was also measured with ARTA; also manufacturer is indicating this difference in the datasheet too: 114dB vs. 108dB A-weighted).
Cans testes: AKG K701, AKG K550 and Byerdynamic DT 880 (600 Ohms)
DAC was ASUS Essence One MKii
Headamp was
Matrix HPA-3B.