Not here, at least not from 1970-2000 (My first motorcycle [when I was 14], a 1971 Honda CL 175) aloud me to get more income through more jobs (I had a lawn mowing business at 10 & at 15, I was able to go be a mechanic after school. Lets see: 15, at my full adult height for 2 years already (height of 5'8" [173 CM]), same with the mustache,
transportation, money, a 30" (79 CM), literally, the right type of women (adventurous), seemed to pop out of the wood work. I dated one from age 15 to 27. We were off and on sometimes (because their was the occasional "other" one).
I probably should have married her, but I travelled the world instead (9 trips to Europe, 14 trips through the Panama canal, lived on islands in the equatorial area of the Indian Ocean and Western Pacific) and finally got married on the island of Saipan in 2005.
Surprisingly (to me, anyway) we are still married.
But I do not see how those goals were/are counter productive???
At least not until the women that you met while motorcycling (and who was attracted to you because you where motorcycling) tries to tell you "I do not want you riding a motorcycle any more!" Now, a choice has to be made. And, for her, it's not usually the one that she hoped for.