Wouldn't this suggest that the music would sound fine (good) most of the time, and only sound off when these massive peaks occurred. That doesn't seem to be OP's issue.
I'd second the suggestions to audition different speakers, radically change speaker placement or to turn off YPAO (and to try alternate DSP)
"That doesn't seem to be OP's issue" - In fact, this is the closest description to what is happening, most of the time the music sounds reasonable, but in the parts where the bass is supposed to be more prominent and detailed it sounds sometimes swallowed and smeared, it's like it manages to express most of the frequencies except the low ones. and in most of my music the requirement to express low frequencies is almost constant.
The subwoofer has already returned to the store, so I'm currently running without a subwoofer and the ypao is completely off, so I can hear the speakers right now as they are and I'm not satisfied anyway, although at the moment the speakers are without low cut and they are very close to the wall and I will expand on this in the reply below..
about your suggestion changing the position of the speakers, I will definitely try even though I don't have many options here unfortunately, thanks for the advice.
Companies quote numbers that they think will make their product look good. Look for independent measurement, and if it doesn't match your needs then don't buy it.
Go look at the amps actually tested here as your starting point. What do they actually do into four ohms? Then look for other review sites that measure, even if they don't do it as well - and remember that HiFi News and Stereophile do measure actual power as well.
Another random thought - I didn't check for recommended placement, read the guide for your speakers. Er... they may simply need to be closer to the wall behind them. Unlikely. but have a look.
If there's one thing I'm sure of, it's that my speakers shouldn't be any closer to the wall
they're 8 cm away from the wall and the guide recommends 15-30 cm if I'm not mistaken, that's why I insist on an amplifier with internal crossover capability in the first place, prevent the speakers from expressing the low frequencies.
The subwoofer may simply be badly placed as well. And you will probably be better off with the crossover set higher. The slope of the crossover is also important. Set the crossover to 80Hz.
Remember, the crossover is not just a crossover point, both sub and speaker are still working on either side of the crossover point according to the slope. Your speakers roll off, and may have a hump at 90 or 100 Hz. Your current settings may cause the sub to not be doing enough of the work at 40Hz. Without measurements, it's also likely that the impedance issues are at least partly at the low end with your speakers,
As a general guide, I'd advise getting the speakers to work as well as possible without the sub and then adding it back in, as well
When I was still with the emotiva ta-1 I tried this option since it has an analog crossover switch fixed to 90hz, with no calibration software like ypao and it still didn't sound good to me..
I also tried with the Yamaha different cuts, and then I felt that the more I increased the crossover the sound sounded less good, I noticed that when I release more low frequencies to the speakers everything sounds better, so I decided to stay at 60hz.
And you will be very surprised but the ypao changed by itself after calibration for crossover at 40 Hz.
When I have ypao activated, the crossover settings in the svs sub are disabled and also the option to select a slope.
I have the impression that it is a terrible mistake to mess with two DSP's in two parts of the system, I am sure there is some kind of incompatibility.
"Remember, the crossover is not just a crossover point" - Yes I understand, it doesn't drop at the crossover point straight away, it continues to drop gradually according to the slope. I'm not sure that's the problem but thanks for the advice..
and as I mentioned before, I'm ordering another subwoofer with a slightly different design and it may improve something in the integration with the speakers. and he doesn't have DSP like the svs, so interesting to try..
When it arrives I will try all kinds of cuts