Denon's Directional Bass mode isn’t usually considered that useful, but it actually helped in my case.It should be subtle, bass in general shouldn't be localizabld.
Did you have different results with the Demon feature?
Since it disables mono summing for the subwoofers, I was able to set a high crossover point — around 250 Hz — which allowed me to offload more bass from the main speakers and protect them from excessive excursion.
In Directional mode, you can still use Audyssey or Dirac RC, but I only applied manual EQ to the subs to maximize headroom.
I'm using KEF Reference 1 Meta as my main speakers, and with this setup, they can play at very high SPL without strain.