Diffuse means that the wavefronts from many different directions are, across a small range of frequencies (an ERB to start) are not correlated. It is not easy to describe this. In general, without amazing, deep diffusors, you can't achieve that with 2 channels. Physics is like that.Trying to understand your gripe. "Diffuse" is not at all how I prefer to hear stereo, or what makes stereo emotionally or perceptually "immersive" for me. Obviously two different definitions that may apply to the same theme.
Which just means that your room provides insufficient delay to the start of the diffuse field (if in fact it's diffuse). It is generally simple to get a good image in a good room way, way, outside a critical distance, due to the way that the ear emphasizes the leading edges in an ERB.Yes, and the further you go the poorer the imaging becomes, until it sounds like mono (if the room is long enough) - since both ears can hear both sides equally and crosstalk is 100%. So an equilateral triangle in near or midfield is optimal, as I hear it.
