I was a newcomer in 2019 I think. While a seed of doubt had been planted back when Stereo Review did its blind amplifier test in the1980s, I honestly hadn’t been thinking about it much until I had to replace my system (Thiel, Adcom, various inputs) in 2018. But since joining here, I’ve acquired two systems (one for a second home), and bought most of the equipment based on measurements. Whether I’m satisfied is obviously a matter of listening.
Before that in 2018 I bought a pair of Harbeth speakers through pure listening. I still like them, but honestly, it was a pain, and the Revels I bought (used) on measurements (F228be) are indeed superior. I listened to Wilsons, B&W, Paradigm, and ATC (disliked), Legacy, JBL (meh) and KEF (liked the high end models), and some others I don’t even remember (Rado?) at three pompous stores with snake-oil pushing salesmen in the Manhattan area. It’s the worst listening to these guys tell you you have to match your cables and your amp to get an ‘musical’ result and turning the volume up steadily behind your back.
I took notice that the ones I like measure better by Toole standards, even before I knew what a spinorama was. A lot of the names I didn’t like just had showroom treble (ahem Paradigm, B&W) and I made a point of listening for at least half an hour with most everything.
My son helped me blind compare my recapped Adcom space heater with a Hypex p252, and that was interesting as well. Sighted, I thought I could tell the difference. Nope.
The other thing that convinced me, since all of the above is anecdotal, is the abundance of evidence on the internet. There’s no excuse to be ignorant of this stuff anymore if you desire to talk about it rationally.