An update... LR4 (0.707 + 0.707) for low-pass is causing the least headache. For mains high-pass I've landed on BUT2 (1x 0.707). I've eliminated BUT5, LR6, and LR8. It's asymmetric and I don't care -- it works here.
I've watched Advanced Multiple Subwoofer Control, tried to follow, but got...