How similar sounding will the KH 120+ KH750 be to the KH310?
You mean KH310 without a sub? I´d expect 120 + 750 to have much better bass in a small room. Not only deeper but also more smooth in the most important areas. It also will be easier to find good positions. KH310 are better in the midrange than 120. How much i can´t really say because i´v never compared them directly. This difference will be much more subtle than the expected differences in bass.
If you chose the KH310 i think you will have a quite hard time to carve out their advantages and i expect you will have to add a subwoofer sooner or later. Also you have to figure out how to add room eq and if you decide to add a 750 later, the former DSP will be obsolete. A 310+750-combo is very good, though (i like to think it´s "high end", because i have it...).
If you choose 120 + 750 in the first place you will have a very good system with DSP/EQ from start. The only disadvantage is that it´s more expensive to upgrade later since you would have to sell the 120 if you decide to use 310 later.
PS: Tonally all of the Neumann-speakers are very similar, so the differences between 80, 120, 310 and 420 a relatively small, except SPL and bass.